Aftercare after sex?
No matter if you're in a serious one-on-one relationship, FWB or ONS, Aftercare after sex is the bare minimum! Girls, if he doesn't aftercare you, put your pants on and go home. Guys, if that girl ignores you after going to the top together many times, close your eyes and leave! Aftercare is not only an act of taking care of your physical health, but it also plays an important role in maintaining a good relationship!
Hey, so I only need FWB/ONS, what the hell do I need to maintain a good relationship?
Aftercare doesn't take much of your time. And aftercare is also a civilized act of respecting your partner, even though you know that after that you will never see each other again, but I think you should still leave good impressions in their hearts.
What is post-relationship care?
Post-relationship care can be defined as caring for each other after having sex, including actions that provide mental, physical, and psychological support to both partners.
Mentally, aftercare helps create a safe and trusted space where both of you can share each other's feelings and experiences. What better time to compliment and give suggestions to your partner?
- Talk about the things you really like your partner to do, and wish they would do more
- Talk about things that make you uncomfortable
- Speak your feelings and feelings
Physically, aftercare is about taking care of each other's bodies. This can include cuddling, kissing or simply holding each other tight. It's a way of showing affection through skin-to-skin contact that promotes relaxation and comfort. In addition to cuddling, Rung Rung suggests you can shower together (to take care of each other's special parts)
Aftercare is especially important in strengthening love by respecting and caring for each other.
All the sex but none of the love
Men must have experienced the feeling of reaching an extreme level of excitement, and feeling "calm down" right after reaching the top. Because making love is like riding a roller coaster. The closer you get to the peak, the more your body releases euphoria like oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin. But shortly after, the train began to go downhill and plunged into a state of despair and emptiness.
Feeling melancholy to the point of crying is also known as post-coital dysphoria (PCD) or post-sex blues. Surveying the prevalence of PCD, 41% of men said they had experienced it at least once in their lives, even after they had orgasmed. So, aftercare is said to be the solution to help players "land" more smoothly.
Post sex aftercare tips you can do today
Aftercare is an important aspect of any having sex experience. Rung Rung would like to suggest you some aftercare tips to land smoothly!
- Just slow down a bit
Spend a few minutes to lie next to each other and enjoy the pleasures of the past. Rushing to leave and do something else right after having sex is "no no". Now is a great time to start talking to each other about needs and wants. Give each other a hug, a kiss. Or enjoy a quiet space to feel your breath, heartbeat and give each other the gentlest caresses.
- Bath
Must try must do! Bathing together will be the most natural aftercare activity. If you are still a bit shy about bathing with your partner, I suggest that you stir up the atmosphere by volunteering to massage your back or wash your hair.
- Don't fall asleep right away
Usually the guys who make this mistake are boys. Because the sex process is divided into 4 stages, to the stage of excitement and orgasm, the body begins to secrete a lot of oxytocin hormone that helps men feel satisfied, relieves stress, stress. When the need is satisfied, the body will relax comfortably, and sleep will follow.
Although this is biology's fault, the fact that boys fall asleep immediately after doing it, "leaving their children in the middle of the market" will accidentally hurt those girls!
- Always be upfront about what you want.
Communication is very important in any relationship, even between couples. In future meetings, let them know how you feel about things and encourage them to share their thoughts. If one of you is looking for a long-term relationship and the other just wants to see each other from time to time, the two of you are bound to have major conflicts.
Rung Rung's extra special tip: When you're done, order food to ship home, take a bath together, and enjoy our own love space.
Conclusion
Rung Rung hopes you have had a brief look at the importance of aftercare, the secret to a safe pleasurable landing, don't just settle for mediocrity - we know you know you are more than that!